The Needy Christian Single

Hello there!  Please check out my latest guest blog post over at Love and Grace Media.  Thanks!!!

By Nicole D. Miller

Nicole D. Miller is an author and heartfelt writer, as expressed on her blog Better Than Wine. Her books are published at and on Amazon. She loves all things “old school” hip-hop and R&B, along with any outfit that involves cute boots and thick scarves. She even manages to run her own bookkeeping business ( when she’s not cuddling her cute cat she fondly calls, “Squeaks”.


  1. Great post sis. Even though what we are going through seems so difficult at times, we know God in all of His perfect wisdom is preparing us for greater and developing our characters in such a way that we will be able to handle greater when it comes! What an awesome and creative God!! He is PERFECTION!! Hallelujah!!

  2. Hey Nicole!

    I was unable to respond to your comment on the other site so I decided to leave the answer to your comment (“Thanks for the encouragement Jay! Can you please elaborate on what you mean by “defining moment”?”) here:

    No problemo.

    By “defining moment”, I mean a moment in your life where things became clear for you or perhaps the point where you decided to make a change. It’s like a life changing moment or experience.

    1. Tx for ur persistence Jay! 🙂 well I know when I chose to walk away from my ex that was a defining moment. Making that choice helped me continue on the path of life. Afterward I faced many smaller tests and trials. Christ presented His will and kept asking me to choose His desires over my own. Everytime I obeyed I was able to continue on the path of life. Even when I did not and got distracted, He would pick me up and help me choose life again. Probably my largest life defining moments are choosing Christ, choosing to walk away from my ex, choosing to let go of an unhealthy emotional affair and to let go of another romantic relationship and to let go of all codependent relationships. How about you? What r ur life defining moments?

      1. I really appreciate you opening up and sharing your defining moments with me Nicole.

        I cannot begin to imagine all you went through with each of those experiences, as well as the lessons you learned from them too.

        Some of my defining moments have been making the decision to develop a real relationship with God, deciding to pursue my passion instead of a great paying job, making a decision to be celibate, following God’s instruction to launch Right to R.E.A.L. Love, discovering the significance of God’s Kingdom and the teachings and books of Dr. Myles Munroe.

        All of those experiences have altered my life in inexplicable ways.

      2. Awesome! I really appreciate Dr. Monroe’s teachings! Blessings to u on ur journey in manifesting ur true identity in Him 🙂

  3. I agree. Dr. Munroe’s teachings truly changed my life.

    Thank you so much Nicole and I pray you have a wonderful journey too.

    I’m curious, would you be interested in being a guest on the Right to R.E.A.L. Love Radio podcast?

    It will be a pleasure to speak with you and have you on as a guest. Let me know. Thanks!

      1. Of course. I’ll send you an email within the next few minutes. Thanks for your consideration.

  4. Of course. I just tried to send the email but it said it failed to deliver it to your email address.

    Can you confirm that I’m sending it to the right email address (

    Or do you have another email I can send you the info to?


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