So I just signed up for a 21-day “dating challenge” and I texted my friend about it. She got really excited b/c I’m known for NOT dating in this season and I think she thought this challenge was me diving back into the dating pool. I couldn’t help but smile at her excited text back.… Continue reading Dating Challenge!
Category: Friendships, Relationships & Everything In Between
Shedding The Group Identity
Not sure how many men know this but women have a tendency to be “clickish”. I know, I know, that’s not a real word. But what I mean is, women tend to drift into groups (clicks) with other women and develop deep bonding relationships that can last as short as a year or as… Continue reading Shedding The Group Identity
After the Dating Fast
Several years ago in my early 20s my friends and I read a slew of books on singleness and dating. We had dated in the world and knew that wasn’t God’s desire so certainly dating according to the teaching of the church would equip us with the godly marriage we wanted. I’m using sarcasm here… Continue reading After the Dating Fast
A Fight For Wholeness
Yesterday I had a convo with a good friend about her upcoming b day. She turns 32. I was so touched that she opened up about her own struggles with getting older and her life not looking the way she thought it would look. She shared about the pressure she receives from her church community to get… Continue reading A Fight For Wholeness
Going Higher
The other day my friend and I were discussing relationships. We are learning so much about being a healthy individual first in order to have a healthy marriage. For so long we did not understand why we are waiting. Now we are so thankful for the wait. We are seeing our own issues. Our own… Continue reading Going Higher
32 & Fabulous!
2 days ago I celebrated my 32nd b day. 2 days ago I also had my book release party for How To Overcome Heartbreak. It was perfect. Perfection is impossible to achieve for us mere mortals but Christ made it happen. I was stressed and on an emotional roller coaster ride during the process of preparing… Continue reading 32 & Fabulous!
It is Not Good For Man to Be Alone
Gen 2:18 “The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Another version says: “Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper as his complement.” Often singles use this scripture to justify this belief that they… Continue reading It is Not Good For Man to Be Alone
The Needy Christian Single
Hello there! Please check out my latest guest blog post over at Love and Grace Media. Thanks!!!
Why You Are Not Being Pursued
Recently I was having a conversation with a friend. She shared about how foolish she felt for getting her hopes up that a young man she was in communication with did not pursue. He seemed to be interested and she looked forward to their next meeting and anticipated an opportunity to get to know him… Continue reading Why You Are Not Being Pursued
V Day Party/Book Release
I woke up super early Saturday morning and continued my cleaning and straitening up from the weekend before. I scrubbed and dusted and vacuumed. I looked outside and saw the white stuff taking over the world. “Lord, please make the snow stop for my party!” I know, it was a selfish prayer. But I prayed… Continue reading V Day Party/Book Release